Thursday, March 24, 2011
Do I do too much for my husband?
I have been with my husband for 15 years now and married 10 of them. We have 5 kids together and I love him very much but, a lot of people tell me that I do too much for him so I would like your guys true opinion.Mind you , I don't work. I am a stay at home mom which is work yes but I don't get paid for it. My husband works his 40 sometimes plus hours a week out in the cold weather and in the summer in the heat so, I feel bad that he does so when he comes home in the cold I have his coffee ready in the cup and bring it to him and when it's empty I refill it. In the morning I will get up and set out his clothes, make his lunch, and go out and start up his car so he has a warm car to get into since mine is in the garage. Oh, I get up at 5:20 am to get him up at 5:30. When it is dinner time I will cook dinner and if we are sitting down and watching t.v I will put the food on his plate and bring it to him and if he wants more then I will refill it. I don't have to do this, he never once said that I do but, sometimes I feel that it is now expected of me. It was nice gestures that I did and have become a way of life now. I guess I am just a June Cleaver without the pearls.Should I stop doing all of this or, is it alright to do it. I just don't want him to expect it. I know he busts his a$$ out there everyday and has provided us with a beautiful home and all the wonderful things in life. Hell, I drive an Escalade and he drives an older car so, who has the better deal? lol Thanks for your advice
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